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Female Students: Don’t miss out on life – you have less time than you think

Yes you are very young but when you examine what you are focusing on in life, the things that you are involved in, do they speak to the activities of a person who has endless time to do other things or a person who is focused on activities participated in with passion because they know they are running out of time to continue participating in those precious activities with the people they cherish?

Some great quarterbacks when they were young, Dan Marino and Tony Romo to be specific thought they had more than one Super Bowl in them.

They didn’t.

Dan Marino only catapulted to one against the San Francisco 49ers and a now aging Tony Romo has not made it to one yet.

Many of the friends that you now have in high school or college, despite what you think and hope to do with them, once you graduate, go away to college, accept jobs in other regions, marry and have a new circle of friends, as most of us who are older are aware, in many cases you will never, ever see them again in your life.

We have a guest writer who shares some very thought provoking insights that make a great point about the value of your time.

Please enjoy.

Don’t miss out on life – you have less time than you think

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Dec 25, 2016 02:15 pm | Robert Chen

We don’t know how much time we have

During the holidays, New York City is packed with people – on the sidewalks, inside stores and in the subway. Usually, I fade the crowds out to get to where I want to go.

But today, as I waded through tourists stopping to short to take photos, I stopped to look at what they were focused on. As I followed their gaze, I saw this massive “Believe” sign lit up on the side of Macy’s Department Store in Herald Square. This beautiful sign made me realize that although I’ve spent most of my life in NYC, I’ve seen very little of the city. This insight caught my attention because when I travel to other cities, I try to maximize every minute of my time to see as much as possible.

As I thought more about this phenomenon, I came to the following conclusion:

I push off seeing more of NYC because I believe I have more than enough time to do so.

This reasoning also explains why I saw so much more of cities that I don’t see myself going back to anytime soon.

This perception-induced procrastination dominates other aspects of our lives. When we think we have a lot of time, we put off the important actions and work that we could be doing right now.

In Ryan Holiday’s The Obstacle is the Way, he shares an interesting practice from the ancient Stoic philosophers: meditating on one’s mortality.

The idea is to recognize that you will die and your expiration date might be sooner than you think. We often overestimate how much time we’ll have because we’re not even thinking about it. In some cultures, it’s even taboo to talk or think about death for the fear of inviting calamity.

But what if you only had six weeks to live? What would you start doing today? What would you stop doing immediately?[adToAppearHere]

How would your life change if you know you didn’t have the time to do everything you wanted to do? What would you do differently or who would you reach out to right now?

As you come up with responses to these questions, put these actions on the top of your goals list for 2017.  We never know how long we have. Don’t put off the things you want to do, see or say.[adToAppearHere]

As morbid as it sounds, we will all die. The important question is What do you want to happen because you lived?

If you’re not sure where to start, plan your 2017 as if you’re planning a vacation to a destination you’ll never go back to again. What will be on your itinerary for tomorrow, next week or next month?

For me, it is taking my son to the Holiday Train Show at the NY Botanical Gardens.

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