Do you realize how much difference you can make to your own day, and your own energy, just by making someone else feel good about themselves? By saying something nice to someone – you can raise their energy vibration and in turn yours too, good deal then?
So you know that grouchy colleague that you really don’t see eye to eye with? Well how about saying something nice to them? Oh come on, it can’t be that bad (grimace). Seriously there must be something nice about them, maybe they dress well or have nice hair? Ok, I know you don’t want to say something nice to them, and it may even seem a little false, but think about this, if you really take notice of them, instead of the usual cold shoulder – maybe they have a quality that you haven’t noticed before?
To say something complimentary to someone, even if you don’t like them, and they don’t think you mean it – can create a shift, their ego is boosted and they feel good. You can’t help but feel good too, just look at the twinkle in their eye, and their shoulders square! Guess what happens? You connect for a brief moment, and who knows your relationship may improve. You feel good – they feel good, and on top of that you will most likely have a good day because you started by putting out something good, and your energy vibration is raised, all round winner I say!
This is a great way to start your day on a high note, and it is better than being miserable and dreading facing the grouchy colleague – right?
Ok, if you really cannot face the colleague, how about starting smaller? Smile at every single person you see on the way to work, from leaving your door to arriving at your desk? Now you may get some strange looks, and folk thinking your mad, but hey – that’s their problem not yours – they may think that was nice actually, but they are just not used to it, too busy rushing around with a frown and a heavy burden, but you will not be able to keep the smile off your face, it’s a cool thing to do!
Hey, you may even start a new trend and the world will become a nicer place!
Do you know years ago, everyone would greet each other on passing, it was the polite thing to do, and you would be considered rude not to. Just a nod of the head, tip of the cap ‘top o’ the morning to ya’! How wonderful, and how sad that now – people are just too busy or they just would not consider speaking to strangers! This is wise in our day, but what a sad society we live in!
You have to admit that you can’t help feel good when you have made someone else feel good – don’t you think that is just wonderful![adToAppearHere]
My Success to you, to all you deserve and desire!
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